The Difference Between True Love And Unhealthy Obsession
What is an unhealthy obsession with love and how does this manifest? In today’s world, many people are confused and depressed due to the failed relationship because they don’t know how true love should look like. In most cases, the relationship is based on idealisation and infatuation, and these feelings don’t grow into something more […]
4 Major Topics to Discuss Before Getting Engaged
Are you contemplating getting engaged? You should! Getting married is the ultimate relationship goal for many people, especially if you have found that one person who you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you think you might have found that person, you might already be discussing engagement. It’s a good idea […]
What do men find attractive in women when looking for a partner?
As humans, there is one thing we all have in common: we all want to be loved. Since the beginning of time, men and women have been trying to work out what it is about the opposite sex that we find most attractive. What traits are most appealing and how can we authentically enhance and […]
7 Signs You Are Not Over Your Ex
Are you still in love with your ex-partner? There are many signs that you are not over your ex but sometimes we miss them. Before you get back to the dating scene, you need to make sure you’re ready for a new relationship. Breakups or divorces are always painful. They don’t only hurt your feelings […]
How to show love to your wife | Tips for a happy marriage
Are you wanting to show love to your wife? Good! Today is the day my husband proposed to me, exactly one year ago – June 9th, 2015. We got married last November and since then – well, a lot has happened, to say the least. My hubby is an awesome guy, he really is. He […]
Learning from failed relationships | What your ex can reveal about you
Urgh. Crappy stuff happens to me all the time. I have lost jobs, had disastrous relationships, I have been injured, I have lost important things, I have felt terrible pain. We all have, right? Failed relationships are always hard. For the most part, I have been blessed with really quite wonderful men in my life […]
Why do bad things happen to good people?
I like to think of myself as a good person but bad things happen to me all the time. In fact, bad things happen to all people all the time. I have yet to meet or hear of anyone who has not had bad or tough times come to them. Bad things happening are a […]
Honeymoon phase: 9 things I’ve learned since getting married
Are you in the honeymoon phase? Marriage is awesome – seriously, get freakin’ married if you can. Both the hubby and I agree that we are not sure how we managed to get by before. Before I married my Noodle*, I was an independent woman who looked after herself. Now that I am a-wedded, I […]
How to make people think you’re sexy – 14 sure-fire tips
So, how sexy are you – really? Sexiness is something that doesn’t come naturally to some – but the good news is – there are many ways to “fake it” and convince the object of your desire that you are god’s gift to man (or woman) kind. Here, we examine what sexiness is and how […]
Do men need more emotional space than women?
Have you heard that men need more emotional space? My man needs a lot of personal space. I am only really starting to work this out, despite having first met him nearly five years ago. I follow him around the house, I talk over his favourite TV shows, I try to cuddle up to him […]
Why is my partner taking his (or her) anger out on me?
Sometimes we are mean to our partners, or those who are closest to us. Sometimes people that we love, are mean to us for no reason. Or “for no good reason”. When humans are stressed, they can take their anger and frustrations out on those who are nearest to them – the people who will […]
Should you take your husband’s name? The pros and cons
I am about to undergo an identity change. I am getting married and changing my last name. I am very excited about it – I cannot wait – but it will be a big change. I always liked my birth name, and since I am now in my mid-thirties, I have become quite used to […]














