What Makes a Man Hot? The Definitive List
Men. Blokes. Dudes. Bros. I love ‘em and I hate ‘em… but mostly I find them irresistible, provided they play by my rules (ok this has never happened to date, but I remain staunchly optimistic!). Recently, I uncovered an old diary where I listed what I find attractive and unattractive in a man, and since […]
What’s Wrong with My Body? The Parts I Love and Hate
I thought it was high time I blogged about my boobs again. My posts on my breasts have been among the most popular on my site, which doesn’t surprise me as my boobs have always been popular in general. I am a straight woman, but I have to admit that I love breasts. All in […]
How to Have Self-Control: Some Easy Techniques
Sometimes I am great at exercising self control, and sometimes I am not. I am quite good with money and I have no trouble sticking to a budget and scrimping and saving to treat myself to something I really want, like an expensive item of clothing. I am not the type to splash out and […]
How to Let Go: of People and Things
Letting go: It’s hard isn’t it? As humans we have a tendency to hold onto things, particularly things we think we need. There are those shows on TV now where people hoard things and their houses get filled with layers and layers of junk and clutter until the places are uninhabitable. I always find these […]
Bad Manners: The 7 Worst Mistakes You’re Making
Bad manners irk me. There is nothing worse than a rotten day being made worse by a philistine pushing past you, or talking loudly and generally making themselves the most important person in the room. Do you have bad manners? Bad manners can be the difference between having a bad day and a good day, […]
Men with Beards: Why I Love ‘Em!
Beards, they are everywhere at the moment. Do you love them? Loathe them? Do you have one? I personally have always loved facial hair, from sideburns to moustaches to full beards and mutton chops, I’m a massive fan of unruly man-hair. I’m not really sure why – I think it’s probably because I am not […]
How Many People Have You Slept With? Here’s the Number You Should Give.
This one seems to crop up quite a bit, and it shouldn’t. Like asking a woman’s age, or a man’s penis size, there are certain questions which are just plain rude. Yes, I have been asked the question a few times, and I no qualms about not telling the truth with this particular information request […]
How I Plan to “Date” Myself : Getting Used to My Own Company Again
I’ve got no idea who I really am. Of course, that sounds absurd; if I don’t know myself, then who possibly can? Aren’t I the one in charge of dressing myself, choosing my food, putting myself to bed and getting myself to work? So how can it be that I totally don’t know myself at all? I have […]
How an Alpha Male Personality Will Attract an Alpha Female
The term “Alpha” started to appear in the media a few years back to define those people that take control of a room effortlessly; those people who seem to have the command of others’ attention, those people who seem to get the best jobs, the best lovers, the greatest opportunities. Where does the term come […]
7 Signs that You’re Dating an Asshole
Assholes: They seem to be everywhere. So, how do you know if someone truly, really is an Asshole? Unlike an emotional vampire, you can’t just wave a clove of garlic at them and hope they disappear. Assholes come and go, and if you suspect that you have one in your life, you should get rid […]
Your Secret Messages: What Your Body Language Reveals About You
Body Language How people communicate with their bodies is an immensely complicated and detailed area. It’s always down to personal interpretation, but some motions and movements are common to us all. There have been studies such as the classic book Guide to Body Language by D Hartland & C Tosh that have indicated that the […]
A Married Man is Hitting on Me (and it’s Making Me Very Uncomfortable)
When a Married Man Hitting on Me causes me grief, I have to stop and think. I have never slept with a married man, and as a mid-thirties woman, this is quite an achievement. I have never been married, and I’m certainly no saint, but there are a few hard-and-fast rules I always play by. […]
How to Create a SWOT Analysis for a Relationship
How to Create a SWOT Analysis to help to Determine a Suitable Relationship A SWOT analysis is a structured planning method used to evaluate the Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats involved in a project or business venture, but they can be really useful as an exercise when you are trying to determine a suitable relationship. […]
Are You Re-Living Your Childhood Pain Via Destructive Relationships?
I have just finished the self-help relationships book I Love You and I’m Leaving You Anyway by Tracy McMillan. Life was tough for Tracy. What would you do if your father was a pimp, a drug dealer and a womaniser who left you abandoned to fend for yourself in a series of foster homes from […]